No matter what you choose to believe in or who you choose to follow, we all sit there and try to understand why things happen the way that they do. We think to our selves, “there MUST be a bigger picture of some sort” while others may find it challenging to grasp this concept especially if they’re facing a breakup or heartache of some sort. But believe it, because it couldn’t be truer.
Take a moment to think back to a time when someone had entered your life and completely changed it around. Whether they made it better or more complicated, they just caused certain things to take place. Now you need to realize that no matter how good or how painful of a role they played, they taught you something, something that will reveal itself at some point. Someday, everything will make perfect sense. For now, laugh at the confusion, smile through the tears, and keep reminding yourself that everything happens for a reason. Even the unpleasant lessons teach us something important. They teach us how to deal with different sorts of pain and difficulty while building us to be stronger and more successful people.
If you’re afraid to let people in because you’re too scared of change then you won’t be able to experience the need for change and therefore, won’t be able to learn the lessons that each person faces when something or someone is working against them.
Everything happens for a reason, live it, love it, learn from it.